Wednesday, 3 October 2012

Where is the limit?


Often we advice a person to be patience on the situation that their currently going through. And sometimes you get this funny feeling about that advice because you were not going through the situation that person going through. On the receiving part, that person will either listen to your advice and change or listen to your advice and continue to listen. In life, we often face situation where our patience being put to test. The best part came when we try to ask “Where is my limit?” the question you should not ask to yourself but instead think about it. When you ask, you tend to set a point of your limit. Meaning “I will get angry if he/she do like that”. These show that we set a point where we wanted to be angry although we know we can still hold onto it.


The world ain’t all Sunshine and Rainbows…

Let Tikus tell you that, this world ain’t all Sunshine and Rainbows everyday as we live in the MEAN and NASTY WORLD. Admit it! You will not face a happy situation everyday neither the worse. We live in a world that include different people and not to mention different attitude. With different people living this earth, it makes us very unique. Beside if we were created by God with the same attitude/characteristics then the world would be easy but we would not grow and learning in every single day that we breath. These differences indicate that we have different limit of patience and when we get angry, we tend to blame people. “If he/she would not do that”, “His/her the one that started everything” and goes on. But do we need to blame each other for putting/test our patience to the limit? YES, NO or MAYBE and start to think back situation where you were not suppose to get angry but yet you do.


Don’t put into test…

Let us get back to the question of “Where is my limit?” Do we or people need to know where our limit is? Yes but do people have the right to put it into test, No Tikus think. Exactly WHY?? Simple reason, because a person itself doesn’t even know where his/her limit of patience or he/she simply has a high limitation. But we have no right to put people patience into TEST because we don’t even know the limitation of that person. But if we already put someone patience into test (with or without intention), see the result and think back “Where is the limit?”.




P/S: If you are tempted to lose patience with another, stop and think how patience God has been with you. 

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