A Journey: “To Complete”

Tikus had a great time last weekend talking to a friend when she “sparks” out a point where she’s wanted to find a partner for this upcoming Valentine. She told Tikus on what she wants to do, how to do it and even ask for and advice. But her last statement makes me laugh when she said, “I’m look desperate, right?” And you know the best part, both of us laugh at that statement after that. Doesn’t want to make the desperate statement to look more desperate by laughing at it, Tikus advice to her was “To Complete”. It’s not a desperate move that she’s making right now but a journey “To Complete”, knowing that she was ready enough.

In Desperate Or To Complete…

Let Tikus throw you this question; how many of you, in life making decision based on “In Desperate” or “To Complete”? What are every reason you looking at in order to make decision in life. “In Desperate” meaning to say that you want everything in hurry while at the same time to fulfil the law of “as long as I’m done”. But “To Complete” is where you taking and analyse even the smallest step you take in order to fulfil the law of “I do care for final result”. Tikus would not argue about effort because both require. Yes! Time also become the main character here because most of our decision influence by it whether the law of “I’m done” or the law of “I care for final result”.

Relax And Sit Down…

Let Tikus bring back the question, “what are every reason you looking at in order to make decision in life?” A simple question but yet require much understanding from you. Why not relax and sit down, grab a cup of coffee and have a moment of silent maybe 1 or 2 hour just to reflect everything in your life especially when it comes to making decision. Not every decision in your life has to go through “In Desperate” path and same goes to “To Complete” path. Like Tikus friend just now, if she is really in that “In Desperate” path, Tikus friend would already have her partner next day. But good she’s taking “To Complete” path. So to anyone who read this, don’t rush in making decision especially when it involves your life. Like wise said “see the root of the tree then you know the fruit it will grow”. Beside, don’t you think that your journey will be colourful if you take different path at a certain time?

P/S: To Tikus friend, “how’s your to complete journey been doing?”